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"13 F*cks You Stop
Giving When You're A Grown Woman"
by Amanda Chatel
At some point, you reach an age where you can’t possibly, even if you tried, give any less of a fuck. You’re done with worrying about what others think, adhering to stupid-ass rules prescribed by stupid ass-people, and you realize who you want in your inner circle and who you want banished forever and ever. It’s not that you’ve become a cantankerous bitch in your older years, but just that you’ve lived long enough to be fucking over pretty much everything. In other words, you simply have no more fucks to give.
Are you to that point in your life? Have you been fortunate enough to have reached the ultimate status of having no more fucks to give? If so, then you’ll know these 13 fucks you stop giving to be true.
1. Giving a fuck
about other people’s opinions. Gah! Other people’s opinions,
especially when they’re about you, should be moot once you’ve become a grown
woman. It’s when you let the opinions of others dictate your life that your
life becomes a cesspool of negativity and a total waste.
2. Giving a fuck
about ridiculous FASHION RULES. No white after Labor Day? Fuck it. No
horizontal stripes unless you’re a size 0? Fuck that fucking shit. No bikini or
mini-skirt after 30? In the immortal words of Bikini Kill, suck my left one.
Seriously.
3. Giving a fuck
about your ex. You broke up for a reason and that reason is probably
somewhere between him being awful and him being the worst, so it’s your job not
to give any fucks about him or what he might think of you.
4. Giving a fuck
about being polite in bed. As a grown ass woman, you’re not just a
walk-on in your bedroom, but the fucking star. If you don’t get what you want
and how you want it, you throw being polite out the window and
woman-the-fuck-up about it.
5. Giving a fuck
about biting your tongue. While in your earlier years some situations
may have called for biting one’s tongue, it’s time to fuck that. If someone
says or does something that pisses you off or disrespects you in any way, then
speak up. Even if that person is your boss.
6. Giving a fuck
about ending toxic relationships. Some people are bad for us! Some
people, even if they’re not cognizant of it, are horrific, TOXIC INFLUENCES in
our lives. You have no more fucks to give them or what your life will be like
without them – it won’t be a loss, that’s for sure.
7. Giving a fuck
about your mistakes. Your mistakes do not define you; they’re merely
pieces in your life that have made you who you are. That is all. Mistakes do
not hold you back, do not open doors to judgment, or ruin your life. They’re
necessary obstacles and not only do you not give a fuck about them, but you’re
practically grateful for them.
8. Giving a fuck about fitting in. Some people
spend their whole lives trying to fit in only to realize that those who want to
belong are just fucking boring! Why would anyone want to be another sheep among
millions of sheep? No thanks. Fly your freak flag and roll solo.
9. Giving a fuck
about social media. In some not so breaking new, social media is not
real life. People “liking” your tweet or “unfriending” you on Facebook is not
something to get your panties in a twist over. In other words? You have no
fucks to give on this front.
10. Giving a fuck
about having the “perfect” body. You have the perfect body for YOU and
that’s all that matters. Now reach for those Doritos and order another pizza,
for fuck’s sake woman!
11. Giving a fuck
about status symbols. Owning a Louis Vuitton bag or only wearing
Chanel makeup is not going to make you a better person. Also, who even knows if
that mascara is Dior or fucking Maybelline?
12. Giving a fuck
about what you can’t control. There will always be things that are out
of your control, and when you quit giving a fuck about them you’ll finally feel
free.
13. Giving a fuck
about not giving a fuck. In life, you need to choose your battles. You
need to decide what deserves your fucks and what doesn’t. When you give a fuck,
give it 150 percent, when you don’t also give it 150 percent. You should never
half-ass anything, especially your fucks.
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